our CRUSH or our CRUSHER??

salam and hai kepada semua...amacam??sehat? cik suka la mengupdate blog bila bosan-bosan..bukan nak study,,layan movie je lebih,,al-maklumlah..konon paper last kan??ala-ala nak balas dendam la nie..hahaha..td cik pergi makan dengan cik ika, cik kinah and cik mas kat Noodle Station (SACC)..alhamdulillah,kenyang sgt,,and sedap, cik ika bagi rasa dy pnye chicken chop,,memang best..then pergi la keluar duit,,mula2 cik ika keluar duit,,then cik kinah,pastu baru la cik pulak..tiba-tiba je, ade la sorang abang nie,"adik2,bole abang amek gambar korg tak?" and si cik mas yang mmg pantang bergambar tu,,straight je bgtau.."boleh-boleh" haha..cik pon dengan tak tahu ape-ape.."hah?korang wat ape nie?" pastu abg tu pon ckp "meh adik,join sekali"..selepas cik blur bebrapa saat,,barulah cik tahu yang abg tu photographer Berita Harian..pergh,,mmg terkejut cik,abg tu suruh posing tgh baca surat khabar tengah2 SACC 2?? hebat!haha..malu giler..haha..abg 2 siap pesan lg,,"nnt tengok keluar paper esok!"..cik pon "yeke?? patotlah siap kena bg nama bagai..hah??masuk paper??" haha..ase nk gelak pulak.. :)

anyway,bukan tu yang cik nk cakap untuk entry nie..nampak kan? post tittle 2?? "our CRUSH or our CRUSHER??"
haa..agak-agak apelah yang cik nak cakap nieh kan? bukan crusher mcD tu lah! aishh..
ape yang cik nak highlight kan kat sini..adelah,,crush kita 2 hanya akan jd crush @ akan jd crusher jugak?

it is a normal thing for a girl having a crush for the time being before their marriage..i even think that it is special to have that kind of feeling.. doesn't u? well,it make us feel glowing,flying and more!haha..speaking like i'm in love,,huhu..i also do have a crush before,let's count..err..one...two..three..three..and that's it! i have 3 crushes! of cause not in a same time..haha..well, basically,there are certain things that we do when we have a crush:::

• bila kita ada crush,kita akan suka pandang-pandang si dia kan? tak? tipu lah..i bet you do,,haha..
• kalo yang sama kelas tu,masuk-masuk kelas je cari dia..kan3?? (cik penah wat la time sekolah dulu)
• dimana sahaja dia berada,korang akan dapat detect dengan senangnye!(gara-gara nak pandang kan?)
• depan dia je,,korang akan act cute,macho,gorgeous,or even brilliant! kan?
• try suka apa yg crush kita suka jgk! so that nanti ada la topik yg nak dibualkan..and baru la boleh merapatkan sillaturrahim,,haha
• then,we'll be happy for every of their successes! even dpt jawab soalan from lecturer pon korg happy untuk dia,,kan?
• at least akan simpan phone number beliau kan? kalo tak contact pon,korang rasa nak simpan jugak..
• kalo dia tegur anything about u, you will be very happy as happy as flying~ contoh situasi::

The One That We Crushed On: eh,boleh jawab tak soalan tadi?
We: oh,boleh la..tak ada lah hebat sangat jawab tadi..
TOTWCO: eleh,tipu la...
(i bet as soon as possible korang akan mencari orang yang bertanggungjawab mendengar segala bebelan korang pasal MR. TOTWCO nie,that is either ur roomate or ur bestfriend untuk mencurahkan segala rasa excited korang tu kat dia kan??cerita sambil tersenyum-senyum,rasa macam nak menari je..haha)

• next is korang akan sentiasa fikir "should i confess? or shouldn't i? SHOULD I OR SHOULD NOT!!"..haha,,sampai la nak pecah kepala korang nanti fikir pasal tu je..

the thing is,,apekah perasan yang kita rasa tu bagus untuk kita? adakah ia baik untuk kesihatan? atau adakah ianya membawa manfaat kepada kita? well,sometimes it is not my all dear readers..

• if kita dah duk tenung dia sepanjang masa dalam kelas,macam mana nk study? fokus kah kita?kalo dapat pon sikit lah..
• issue yang kita control depan dia,it's not good for us actually..let's be ourselves..it is better that they love us just by the way we are..kan? xke sweet tu..
• then,paksa diri suka apa yang dia suka,,tidak ke itu dah membuang masa dan tenaga kita? buatnye beliau tu suka bola,tak kan lah kita nak bangun tengok bola pukul 2 3 pagi?? esok,mula lah penat masuk kelas,,tak ke itu dah jadi 1 keburukan?memudaratkan..
• happy for them,,bila masa pulak la kita nak happy untuk diri kita sendiri kan??we need time for ourselves jugaak ok??save some for our own,,haha
• lastly,bila kita dapat tahu yang rupanya dia dah ada awek..nak lagi sedih,awek dia tu pulak kawan baik kita ke,classmate kita ke,,time tu.."WAAAAAAAAA!! MAK!!!!!!" hahahaa,,,meraungla sampai esok pagi,,dah mata bengkak pulak,,siap demam lagi tu,,haha..mudarat,,mudarat..

kesimpulannye,kita boleh nak crush kat sesape pon yang kita nak,,yang handsome ke,,yang macam DONGHAE ke (hehe), yang tinggi ke..ikot kita lah,,yang penting,apa yang cik nak cakap kat sini..jangan lah layan sangat crush kita tu smpai memudaratkan diri kita sendiri,,it supposed to make u feel happy,not to feel sad,don't let them be ur CRUSHER!! jangan seksa perasaan kita untuk orang lain..ape yang penting?? KERJASAMA!! tak ada lah..yang penting kita happy,,so ingat korang semua,,kalo crush dah ada awek ke ape,,JANGAN SEDIH! be happy ok? there is someone out there was specially made for us and is waiting for us..ok,got to go! until then! bye-eom!!

P/S : kalo korang rasa nak mengadu,,cik ada telinga untuk bagi korang pinjam..ok?? smile!

reasonable or not? real or not?

hello readers.thanks for keep reading my blog even i know that it is not that interesting (like other blog,haha)

by the way,just now i watched 'Kal Ho Na Ho' (a Hindi film) which made me sad and being in a 'jiwang' mode..after finished that movie, i got these in my head 'wah,how did Shah Rukh Khan ending up with easily ask and made sure that Pretty Zinta to love Saif Ali Khan?' 'can Pretty Zinta love Saif and at the same time she still loves the memory of Shah Rukh?' and suddenly my heart speaks to me..

nina's heart : nina,that is how when you loves someone badly

me : oh really? how come did you know that? you are not in love not even once??

nina's heart : ceh, i watch many movie already maa..

me : pfft,nina, life is not the same as in the movie..all of that are only fiction,never happens in life times

nina's heart : and how come u are so confident with that?

me : come on..u know that..all are saying that..when ever miracle happens to them,they will say "wah,i'm feeling that i'm in a fairy tale!!" see?? it shows that it does not supposed to happen in a real world

nina's heart : but it do happened right? if it is not, what situation that made he said that?

me : eeerrr???

(hahaha,,berehat sebentar bersama kit kat..drama free eh kwn2,,)

yeah,fairy tales do happens in real lives,,it is just that we are not aware or tend to be pretending not to aware of it..errm..for an example, u screwed your final paper and suddenly u got an unexpected grade! and yeah,,that was a miracle!haha..always happened to me though..

so,my main point here is WE SHOULD NEVER STOP DREAMING OR HOPING FOR SOMETHING BETTER..like me dreaming for DONGHAE to be my husband 1 day,,(ok guys,that was nina the fan girl..shuuh!go away nina)..dreaming for a caring and sweet husband in the future..by dreaming, we will take the dream seriously and that will make u work the dream out!haha..dream to have a FERRARI car? study more and get a good job,collect money and boom! a FERRARI for u! right? 

• just set up the goal that u want, 
• draft your plan and 
• work it out!!
• as simple as that!!
• and don't forget to ask the help from our beloved god..

can't u see the point here? we should keep have a faith in miracle even though we should think "may GOD decide",,believe in what are we really wanted..and as long as we did not deflated from the truth and norms and also syariat,,yes it is good for you..so keep dreaming! and until then from me,,until then,bye-eom!!

(on the way to dreaming donghae.. :P)

i just DON'T get it..

hello readers,today i decided to post in fully english! actually i should study because i have a paper tomorrow..but it's okay,this will take a second..okay,the case is,the other day,,when as usual,i went to facebooking and saw this note posted by many boys and girls..the link is here (you need to have a FB account to open that). as i went through the reading, it actually made me feel sad because what was talked in the note is true but the sayings is not right. the note was saying bout girls that they feel do not have the quality to be a best and polite girl. they talked about girls were wearing sexy clothes that made them look like a B**** or prostitute and more..it is true that there are SOME girls who were acting like that and i also regretting this scenario, but us as the one who want to give them advice and try to straighten them,need to use the correct way and medium to approach them..try to say it in more proper words instead of swearing and use harsh words,,,there is no use..Rasulullah s.a.w himself had gave us many examples for handling such this situation. and i believe that the writer of the note is definitely a male writer (er,actually i'm doing a sort of discrimination here,haha) by the way he texted the words and by the points that were pointed out. the issue is, WHY  must male have to judge them in that way?? there are certain points that show a bit taste of discrimination, such as "Kau kerek bila kau makan kat fastfood ngan member-member kau..kau snap gamba sana-sini macam tempat tu tak de orang..annoying taek!"..for me everyone has the right to do what ever they wanted and i bet boys also do the same right? then another point is " Macam shit bila kau tulis kat facebook yang kau tengah tension, tengah sakit perut, tengah happy..weh..asal time berak kau tak tulis sekali 'kitew tengah berak..syuke syuke ^__^" this is a ridiculous one (at least for me). many people do that (i think, if i'm not in a imaginary mind) for their status..even my friends(boys) commit it..and also my friends that is a girl that i think polite and quite islamic also do that kind of status..see? another discrimination..there are many more discrimination, for example,sex trafficking and dowry. but there are also some male discrimination, well.i'm not that aware of this case, but i do some searching and i found this:


"I thought you might want to include a few facts that people might not realise about the forces:

• Women are allowed to wear earrings. Men are not.
• Men have to have the hair above the collar, and are not to have hair below the "middle of the ear", this rule does not apply to the hairstyle of women.
• Men have to continually cover the posts of women while they are on maternity leave.
• Men get no extra leave when their wives have babies.

To be fair there a some women who pull their weight but generally the forces are turning into a loony left organisation where you cant say boo to a goose. Sooner or later we are going to get a rude awakening and probably a great kick up the arse"!  it's from http://www.coeffic.demon.co.uk/descrim.htm 


so,the thing that i wanna say here is, do not discriminate other gender, it is not good for the society and our nation, also ourselves..do love each other more..and to the writer of the note before,just remember this "bahasa jiwa bangsa"..
ehem,ehem,ok then, i think until then from cik, bye-eom!!




p/s: peace no war again,,no heart feeling please.it was just the says of my heart :)