i just DON'T get it..

hello readers,today i decided to post in fully english! actually i should study because i have a paper tomorrow..but it's okay,this will take a second..okay,the case is,the other day,,when as usual,i went to facebooking and saw this note posted by many boys and girls..the link is here (you need to have a FB account to open that). as i went through the reading, it actually made me feel sad because what was talked in the note is true but the sayings is not right. the note was saying bout girls that they feel do not have the quality to be a best and polite girl. they talked about girls were wearing sexy clothes that made them look like a B**** or prostitute and more..it is true that there are SOME girls who were acting like that and i also regretting this scenario, but us as the one who want to give them advice and try to straighten them,need to use the correct way and medium to approach them..try to say it in more proper words instead of swearing and use harsh words,,,there is no use..Rasulullah s.a.w himself had gave us many examples for handling such this situation. and i believe that the writer of the note is definitely a male writer (er,actually i'm doing a sort of discrimination here,haha) by the way he texted the words and by the points that were pointed out. the issue is, WHY  must male have to judge them in that way?? there are certain points that show a bit taste of discrimination, such as "Kau kerek bila kau makan kat fastfood ngan member-member kau..kau snap gamba sana-sini macam tempat tu tak de orang..annoying taek!"..for me everyone has the right to do what ever they wanted and i bet boys also do the same right? then another point is " Macam shit bila kau tulis kat facebook yang kau tengah tension, tengah sakit perut, tengah happy..weh..asal time berak kau tak tulis sekali 'kitew tengah berak..syuke syuke ^__^" this is a ridiculous one (at least for me). many people do that (i think, if i'm not in a imaginary mind) for their status..even my friends(boys) commit it..and also my friends that is a girl that i think polite and quite islamic also do that kind of status..see? another discrimination..there are many more discrimination, for example,sex trafficking and dowry. but there are also some male discrimination, well.i'm not that aware of this case, but i do some searching and i found this:


"I thought you might want to include a few facts that people might not realise about the forces:

• Women are allowed to wear earrings. Men are not.
• Men have to have the hair above the collar, and are not to have hair below the "middle of the ear", this rule does not apply to the hairstyle of women.
• Men have to continually cover the posts of women while they are on maternity leave.
• Men get no extra leave when their wives have babies.

To be fair there a some women who pull their weight but generally the forces are turning into a loony left organisation where you cant say boo to a goose. Sooner or later we are going to get a rude awakening and probably a great kick up the arse"!  it's from http://www.coeffic.demon.co.uk/descrim.htm 


so,the thing that i wanna say here is, do not discriminate other gender, it is not good for the society and our nation, also ourselves..do love each other more..and to the writer of the note before,just remember this "bahasa jiwa bangsa"..
ehem,ehem,ok then, i think until then from cik, bye-eom!!




p/s: peace no war again,,no heart feeling please.it was just the says of my heart :)

CERTAINLY not FAIR

first of all,,sebelom bce bebelan cik,cik nk ckp HAI dulu..^^ (konon hepi,,paper law dah lepas).

OK!!!big case!! cik berfesbuk la td,,ttbe ade la adik cik tqah(kawan cik) nie bg link kat cik,,pasal research sorg Prof. UM nie,pasal HALYU WAVE...dorg ckp yg minat kepada korea nie xbgus,,BOLEH MEMUPUK GEJALA MEMBUNUH DIRI AND PEMBAZIRAN..(ok,mybe cik over sikit dgn ayt2 cik nie,sory,my bad,please endure that)..ape 2??ok,mybe some of you said that "alah,nina 2 mmg minat korea pon,mmg la dy hangin baca artikel 2" hello my dear,i rasa bole pk sendiri lah...indeed yg mende nie betul, Korea Selatan have the most ranking in suicide case..but then, ape kne mngena ngn fans dorg? affected?? kalo org yg ktorg mnt 2 kill herself then ktorg yg mnt nie pon nk suicide gak la??mcm 2?? then ckp pembaziran,,( i do agree,as i'm not that big SPENDER)..alamak korang,,peminat hollywood 2 korg xnk wat research lak??peminat justin bieber yg duk beli mcm2 2 korg xnmpk pulak? adakah sbb mende yg ktorg mnt 2 dr KOREA and it's a new thing compared 2 HOLLYWOOD?? mcm 2?? actually it's depend on oneself lah,don't judge on the overall..cik tgk,,kwn2 cik yg duk fanatik terlebih compared 2 cik yg bese2 nie(ekceli half fanatik la),,xde la smpai nk g suicide ikot idola dorg 2,,ishk,nk2 pulak publish mende nie kat paper,,(ok,yg nie do involves some personal matter) kalo ayh cik bce? xke nnt.."nina!!jgn tgk drama korea dah!!paper said it's not good for you.." ape nie? abes tu kalo yg duk tgk america's next top model 2 xpe lah??lg HEBAT and HOT kot cik rasa..compared 2 suicide cases(mcm la hollywood xde suicide case,hello,byk kot yg femes2,,marilyn monroe,black dahlia n mcm2 lah)kan? cik seriously doesnt understand WHY??? maybe sbb nk lariskan paper 2 kot,,haha,jhtnye cik..xde2,,paper xbersalah..for me it is worth being their fans..worth to hear and adore their songs, worth to watch their movies and dramas, it is the same case like people think that it is worth to watch and have a collection of HARRY POTTER AND TWILIGHT series..(cik pon ade)..see?? doesnt it clearly potrayed that it is the same scenario..it was just the way people judging things..indeed kita ade pendapat masing2,,but then,,be fair and square my dear RESEARCHERS kat luar sne 2,kalo nk buat research pasal korean wave,,please do the same thing for bieber's wave also..baru la org x pndg serong kat ktorg yg interest lebih pd koreans...thats all..panjang2 nnt cik emo lak,,haha..^^ well,,bye-eom!! 

ini adalah keratan akhbar yg wat cik nk membebel,haha

p/s: peace no war 2 sape2 yg terase kalo bce cik pnye post kali nie,,remember..it's just the says from my heart.. :)

couple..couple..and couple

it is hard when we have someone that we
crushed with

ok!! rindu kat blog cik..sebenarnye cik bosan..asyik study je,yelah,nme pon tgh exam week..kalo xstudy,org pndg pelik,,haha..paper ekonomi,alhamdulillah,dah berlalu..and i think i'd done it quite well..anyway,let ALLAH decides what's the best..td cik bce blog anwar hadi..(in case kalo korg nk baca gak) and he says about couple things..and reading that made me think that "emm,betol gak ape yang mamat nie ckp" then cik terpikir la segala mcm peristiwa yg cik tgk berlaku pd kwn2 cik..cik nie bkn ape,cik xpenah bercinta pon (and maybe that's why some of you might say that i'm not qualified to write this..but hey,hallo..i have eyes and i can do analysis from my friends' behaviour)..mmg ssh lah kapel2 nie,,cik akn list kan beberapa situasi yg pernah cik lalui:
case pertama: cik nk g mkn marry brown ngn mmbe cik nie,mmbe cik yg drive..tgh2 dy drive,
mmbe: (speaking on the phone) B, org nk keluar nie,kat marry brown,ngn nina ngn nadia..(her bf is speaking maybe)..haa,org drive...( bf is speking again)..ptg baru balik kot..ok,take care..
cik nina's court held that: alamak korg nie,bf 2 bkn nye suami korg,xyah la minx izin bagai..cik xberkenan betui laa..lgpon,kalo korg xikot ape yg dorg ckp 2 nusyuz kah??

case kedua: (nie bkn pengalaman cik,tp rumate cik) mmbe beliau,g kelas pkai BAJU KURUNG SAHAJA..xakan pkai seluar or skirt wat ever else,sbb bf dy yg suruh..mesti korg kata baguihnye pkwe dy,cik pon tertipu..tp nnt dulu kamoo2 sekalian..sekali cik dpt tw yg dy keluar ngn bf dy, pakai seluar..pakai baju yang hot2 gitu..
cik nina's court held that: aduyai,cik pnye la nyaris nk respect bf beliau,sekali,upe-upenye,bf beliau ckp,jgn pkai seluar (pakai hot2 ) except time keluar ngn dy..WTHeck! cik ase la kan,a bf should take care of his gf if he really loves that girl..pkai baju kurung g kelas 2 mmg dah baik dah,,but bab yg pkai seluar ngn dy je 2,,cik xleh nk setuju la,,jatuh trus tabik cik kat bf dy

case ketiga: cik tgh study,,then suddenly rumate cik nanges..cik pon tnye la.."beb,nape ko nanges nie?" "****(her bf name),dy maki2 ak.." "loh,nape dy nk maki2 ko plak?" "ntah la,dy tgh bengang ngn mmbe dy.."...
cik nina's court held that: ok girls,kalo korg jmpe guys yg mcm nie,i'm strictly saying that "YOU SHOULD  THROW HIM AWAY!!!" hahaha..time happy,amboi,bkn main lagi syg2 kau ye,,sekali,,bila tgh hangin,,ko maki2 mmbe ak ye? cik xsuka betul la laki cm nie,for me, it's not gentleman,,i'll give a big credit to those yg tahu menghormati perempuan..even their face is just a so-so..

case keempat: cik tgk unnie2 dlm kelas cik 2,,sume dah kena tinggal ngn pkwe2 dorg,,upenye dorg sume dah diduakan,,hoho..cik tgk masing2 kat fb semacam je..status sume dah jd yang jiwang2,,abes ngn cik2 skali berjangkit wat status jiwang2 karat,,haha
cik nina's court held that: korg kalo yg dah kena dump 2,,jgn la meroyan smpai xegt dunia,,cik tumpang sedih,,kalo cik pnye bf la wat cm tu,,cik xtw nk kata apa,,n akan act mcmne,,sbb cik xpenah ade experience kan..mybe korg akn ckp yg cik xphm pape sbb xpenah kapel,,but then,mende nie cik ase sume bole pk sendiri,,kita ada akal n fikiran,,ape slhnye kalo kita ditinggalkan? life must go on rite? there must be somewhere out there were specially made for u,,dont worry much ok?

ok,somehow cik ok je kalo korg sume xlalu case2 yg cik sebut2 kat ats 2,,cik restu lah per'kapel'an korg 2,,kalo x,,siap la korg pnye bf,,better be careful with me!!haha..tu je lah cik nk bebel ari nie..nite2 u all..

wedding

oke,ekceli td cik g lunch ngn family cik nadia,,THANKS FAMILY NADIA!! :)

BTW,,bukan 2 yg cik nk ckp,tgh ddk dlm keta 2 kan,cik ade bce surat khabr arini (memandangkan skrg da pkul 3 pagi,menda 2 smalam lah kan?) psal wedding prince yg paling hensem skali dlm dunia nie..hoho..PRINCE OF ENGLAND,,PRINCE WILLIAM..(sumpah dy handsome giler,cik suka sgt) and KATE pon mmg deserve dpt prince 2,sbb dy mmg lawa lah!! (excited mode)...tp kan,yg cik musykil 2,,cik ase dulu rmbut prince pnye la tebal(bese la org england,besenye rmbut tebal) tp td cik tgk rmbut dy secipot je,,adekah sbb dy dah nk jd official ruler nie tension and menyebabkan masalah rmbut yg teruk?? ape2 pon,,prince ttp yg terhandsome lah!! (exception:xleh lwn donghae ngn siwon lah) hoho..tgk dorg pnye pic (prince and kate) "waahhh....sgt sepadan..sgt comel..sgt sweet..semua yg sgt lah!!!!" hahaha...anyway,cik harap case cm pricess diana 2 xjd smula la kan? well,,sume org ckp pasal 2,,tp cik ase xkn nk jd lg kan?(kalo ye pon mende nie dsbbkan org istana england 2,,xkan la dorg B**** sgt nk wat lg after that "diana's case" 2 gempak gila..kan?) well!!! happy wedding PRINCE TERHANDSOME~~~

alamak!!dah nk final!!!

haa,,cik nie,dok hebat sgt enjoy sana sini,cik xperasan yg dah nk final dah,dgn kewujudan hard disc cik yg comel lg mengancam nie,,lg lah cik xduk study..byk sgt citer dlm 2,,sume cik nk tgkk,,haha..yg pling xleh blah,, ATHENA : the goddess of war la..cik mmg xleh tahan ngn citer 2,,dpt2 je,cik teruih (ape ckp kedah nie) je ngadap laptop tgk,,haha..(maklumla,ade oppa dlm 2 a.k.a siwon tercinta) tp citer 2 mmg BEST LAHH!! hahaa,,xtw la nie statement bias ke x,,well,,,korg commment sendiri...

seterusnye!!cik nk ckp yg cik ade sorg oppa nie(err,,boleh kata classmate lah),cik suka kaco dy,nmpk sket,cik lambai,masuk kelas je,cik kaco dy,suruh dy ddk sebelah cik la,,haha,,yelah2,cik tw,korg kata cik gatai,,haha,tp nk wat cne,cik suka tgk dy blushing,,haha,,nnt telinga dy merah giler,,huhu..abes sume 1 kelas duk kata cik suka kat dy,,huhu..cik nie suka kaco org,,jgn la assume yg bkn2,,dulu time matrik pon cik mmg suka kaco org nie,,nak2,,kaco alex( a chinese boy)..huhu(rindu kat matrik)...hah,,kembali ke jln yg bnr..bila dah cik nie suka kaco dy,,ttbe pulak la saham oppa cik nie melambung tggi,,haha..abes sume org pon claim yg oppa 2 dorg pnye,,adeh~"ei! cik pnye lah!!" hahaha...then,lately,sejak menyedari yg diri dy 2 diminati ramai(ramai ker??),,haa,,maka timbul lah sifat yg cik ase natural sume guys ade,,sifat "perasan macho" alah,nk tegur cik pon ssh,,egt cik nk sgt kat dy ke? adui,,"oppa,cik main2 je la,layan je la,,sporting sket"..pastu,skarang nie,cik ase cik nk bersara from duk kaco oppa 2,,sbb tkot perangai dy melarat,,nnt elok2 baik n humble,jd laen lak nnt..

next!!hahaha..ade sorg lg oppa,,well bole la kata bff (bff ke??ala,bolah la kata baek) dy da pindah keluar uitm,,huk3,,cik sedih senanye,,tp cik wat diam je la,,haha..lgpon,cik nie xreti la nk express feeling beria sgt,,emmm,,ari 2 g mkn mcd ramai2,,ngn oppa 2 la,,just yg xbestnye,xsume ade..hoho..ade la bberapa unnie yg xde,,then kami pas mkn 2,,haa,,amek kau,posing mcm2,,haha..mcm mcd 2 dah xde org laen dah,,haaha,,well,sweet memory utk oppa lgpon,,bia je la,,then balik2 2,cik ngn oppa nie wat la profile pic kat FB 2 gne pic yg sme,,tup3,,ade pulak unnie2 2 assume cik nie kapel ngn oppa 2 la,,adeh~cik xlarat nk ade byk sgt scandal~ cik xleh nk kata ape,,diorg kata,penah nmpk ktorg mkn sme la,study sama la,,ala,rilek la,cik kwn je pon ngn oppa 2,,adoi..tp xpe lah,,oppa 2 pon da blah,xde problem pon kalo kena usik ke ape,,kan? :)

lagi!!!adui,,cik nie da penat senanye,tp jgn isau,1 je lg..cik nk wish selamat malam,,hehe..eh,betol la,kena la wish nite2 dulu sebelom berpisah,,muahahaha..k lah,,cik need to study,,bye,,salam..(^^)(wink2)