i just DON'T get it..

hello readers,today i decided to post in fully english! actually i should study because i have a paper tomorrow..but it's okay,this will take a second..okay,the case is,the other day,,when as usual,i went to facebooking and saw this note posted by many boys and girls..the link is here (you need to have a FB account to open that). as i went through the reading, it actually made me feel sad because what was talked in the note is true but the sayings is not right. the note was saying bout girls that they feel do not have the quality to be a best and polite girl. they talked about girls were wearing sexy clothes that made them look like a B**** or prostitute and more..it is true that there are SOME girls who were acting like that and i also regretting this scenario, but us as the one who want to give them advice and try to straighten them,need to use the correct way and medium to approach them..try to say it in more proper words instead of swearing and use harsh words,,,there is no use..Rasulullah s.a.w himself had gave us many examples for handling such this situation. and i believe that the writer of the note is definitely a male writer (er,actually i'm doing a sort of discrimination here,haha) by the way he texted the words and by the points that were pointed out. the issue is, WHY  must male have to judge them in that way?? there are certain points that show a bit taste of discrimination, such as "Kau kerek bila kau makan kat fastfood ngan member-member kau..kau snap gamba sana-sini macam tempat tu tak de orang..annoying taek!"..for me everyone has the right to do what ever they wanted and i bet boys also do the same right? then another point is " Macam shit bila kau tulis kat facebook yang kau tengah tension, tengah sakit perut, tengah happy..weh..asal time berak kau tak tulis sekali 'kitew tengah berak..syuke syuke ^__^" this is a ridiculous one (at least for me). many people do that (i think, if i'm not in a imaginary mind) for their status..even my friends(boys) commit it..and also my friends that is a girl that i think polite and quite islamic also do that kind of status..see? another discrimination..there are many more discrimination, for example,sex trafficking and dowry. but there are also some male discrimination, well.i'm not that aware of this case, but i do some searching and i found this:


"I thought you might want to include a few facts that people might not realise about the forces:

• Women are allowed to wear earrings. Men are not.
• Men have to have the hair above the collar, and are not to have hair below the "middle of the ear", this rule does not apply to the hairstyle of women.
• Men have to continually cover the posts of women while they are on maternity leave.
• Men get no extra leave when their wives have babies.

To be fair there a some women who pull their weight but generally the forces are turning into a loony left organisation where you cant say boo to a goose. Sooner or later we are going to get a rude awakening and probably a great kick up the arse"!  it's from http://www.coeffic.demon.co.uk/descrim.htm 


so,the thing that i wanna say here is, do not discriminate other gender, it is not good for the society and our nation, also ourselves..do love each other more..and to the writer of the note before,just remember this "bahasa jiwa bangsa"..
ehem,ehem,ok then, i think until then from cik, bye-eom!!




p/s: peace no war again,,no heart feeling please.it was just the says of my heart :)